Talk it through
with a real woman's perspective.
A marketplace for paid conversations. Live, one-on-one, by the minute.Live, one-on-one, by the minute. Nobody you know, that's the point.
VoxHer is a marketplace for paid conversations with verified advisors. Create a free account to browse advisors and book when you're ready.
You only pay for the minutes you talk.
Tells you you're right. It's built to keep you talking.
Love you. That's the problem.
Has a stake in your answer, and a memory of it.
Public, slow, and half of them are 19.
Someone who isn't in it can usually see it.
Match with women whose perspective actually fits your situation.
When you ask a question, VoxHer helps match you with advisors whose age, life stage, background, and perspective fit the situation, whether you're navigating dating, family, work, shopping, or a hard conversation.
Because feedback from a 24-year-old in the city is different from a 38-year-old mom in the suburbs. VoxHer helps you hear from the perspective that actually matters for the decision in front of you.
These are the advisors, meet a few of them.
Browse the full marketplace and see who's online.
Browse all advisors →Three steps to a clearer next move.
Pick someone.
Filter by topic, age, whether she's a parent, rate. She's online or she isn't.
Load a balance.
$10 minimum. You're charged by the minute, only for the minutes you use.
Talk.
Live chat or video. Persona names both ways. End it whenever you want.
People come to VoxHer to ask...
"I've been single for five years. What am I doing wrong?"
"Be honest — do women find my profile boring?"
"I want to propose. I have no idea what kind of ring she'd actually want and I can't ask her friends."
"My girlfriend mentioned 'I'd love to feel pretty again.' What does that mean and how do I respond?"
"My wife said I'm emotionally unavailable. I don't even know what that means."
"My wife told me I'm a bad husband during a fight. We made up but I can't stop thinking about it."
"I'm scared I'm becoming my father. I don't know how to stop."
"My son told me he hates me. He's 14. How seriously do I take this?"
"I'm 51 and just got laid off for the first time in my life. I haven't told my wife yet."
"I got passed over for a promotion that went to a younger woman. I'm trying not to be that guy about it. What am I missing?"
"I'm 56 and I think I've been lonely my entire adult life. I never had a name for it until now."
"I'm up at 3am again and I just want to talk to someone."
You control what you spend.
Real-time back-and-forth. Pay by the minute, end anytime.
Each advisor sets her own rate.
Face to face with a real woman. See her, hear her, talk it through.
Each advisor sets her own rate.
Load your wallet with $10, $25, $50, $100, or $200. Your balance never expires.
Nothing you say here follows you home.
You use a display name. She uses a persona name. Neither of you sees the other's real identity. Sessions aren't transcribed — the only things ever stored are the last few messages if you or she ends a session with a report, which is how we act on someone behaving badly. No mutual friends. No follow-up questions. Nobody finds out you asked.
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